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Another Birthday.  I think there have been enough by now that we really don’t need to acknowledge them.  đź™‚  It’s lovely though, how many people reach out on social media or email and of course, my fabulous sons and husband are always so thoughtful.

As I get older and say goodbye to some along the way, the proof of my mortality looms somewhere ahead.  I find myself constantly trying to put my life in context, to lighten up, to appreciate people more without the pressure, the stress, the striving, the paranoia that drives us.  Someone posted this quotation on Facebook and I thought it was perfect.

I think midlife is when the universe gently places her hands upon your shoulders, pulls you close, and whispers in your ear:
Your armor is preventing you from growing into your gifts. I understand that you needed these protections when you were small. I understand that you believed your armor could help you secure all of the things you needed to feel worthy of love and belonging, but you’re still searching and you’re more lost than ever.

Time is growing short. There are unexplored adventures ahead of you. You can’t live the rest of your life worried about what other people think. You were born worthy of love and belonging. Courage and daring are coursing through you. You were made to live and love with your whole heart. It’s time to show up and be seen.

~ Brené Brown

Celebrating the Life of Agnes Remme

Agnes with her parents
Agnes with her parents

Agnes Remme (April 7, 1924 – June 15, 2016) also known as Mom, Grandma, Great-Grandma and Aunt Agnes, was born Agnes Agatha Niedzwiecki in 1924 to Polish immigrants on their farm in Huntsville, Ontario.  They’d come to Canada from Krakow as Homesteaders to build a new life with their growing family – Mary, Frank, John, Agnes, Albert and Mac.  Of the six siblings, Mary and Mac are still with us.grandma in 20s-grandma ski-

Agnes was always a beautiful woman with a great, inviting smile and easy laugh.  In recent years, she’d retreated into an inner world, partially triggered by the unexpected death of her husband in a ski accident in 1995.

early 1960's
early 1960’s

Around 1941, she was named the “Snow Queen” in her hometown, a local beauty pageant and shortly afterwards made her way to Toronto with big sister, Mary, to find office work in the city.  It was there that she met Arild Remme on a visit to “Little Norway”, the Norwegian Airforce base on the Toronto Islands.  Arild was standing guard and was immediately taken with Agnes. Flirting and then dating led to marriage on November 18, 1942 with their first child, Ola arriving in the summer of 1943.  Irene was born in 1944 and then Sandra in 1955.

Sandra's weddingAgnes was very social, loved to dance and was always fastidious in her appearance and how she kept her home.  She worked many jobs over the years to help support her family, including restaurants and a ladies’ fashion store.

Agnes and Arild built their homes, first in Alderwood (the Lakeshore area of Toronto) where they hosted many friends and extended family, and then their cottage which later became their home for many years, in Huntsville.  Agnes had a kind, motherly spirit and took great care of her children.  She was not the strict disciplinarian in the family although sometimes she had to chase her rebellious son with a flyswatter to keep him in line.  It didn’t work, of course.

Agnes' birthdayIn addition to her 3 children, Agnes had 7 grandchildren (Eden, Randy, Rebecca, Ryan, Cory, Elissa) and 3 step-grandchildren (Heather, Judy, Pam).  Sadly Heather and Cory predeceased her.  She had 10 great grandchildren (Jordan, Perry, Tyler, Ryley, Veronica, Austen, Jasper, Mya, Cole, Noah) and many nieces and nephews.

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1989 Agnes and Arild with Jordan

Agnes and Arild enjoyed people and adventure, travelling with their trailer south (Ft Myers) and west (Banff, Victoria) and later spent time in Norway, visiting with family.  They maintained close contact with their Norwegian relatives, with visits on both sides of the Atlantic.

We remember Agnes’ vivacious, cheerful, motherly spirit, her beautiful smile, and the legacy she has left behind in all of us.

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Agnes' 90th birthday
Agnes’ 90th birthday

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Urban Canada – Award from Canadian Geographic

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This image was the runner-up (2nd Place) in the 2015 Canadian Geographic Annual Photo Competition in the Urban Canada category.

It was taken at twilight on the last day of the Labour Day weekend in Toronto when all the cottagers were coming home.

All the winners are displayed here.

August 2015

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Vision Speak – Category Finalist

Eric Hoffer Awards - Finalist
Eric Hoffer Awards – Finalist

My novel, “Vision Speak“, has just been named a Category Finalist in the Eric Hoffer Awards for Independent Book Publishing.

 Because “Vision Speak” was originally published in 2010 and this is the first time I have submitted to these awards, I had to enter in the Legacy Fiction category as many of the books up for awards would have been published in the previous year.

From the Eric Hoffer Awards Site: “After our rigorous first round of judging, less than 10% of the titles become category finalists. We consider this a distinction of its own merit and, in 2008, began officially listing these titles on-line. Finalists are selected by category scoring. There are typically 1-6 books per category selected as a finalist. Finalists fall into approximately the upper 10% of all books that entered the contest.”

First Place Award

Another first place award, this time for Chasing the Light (http://chasingthelight.info/) Photo Competition “Winter Wonderland”.

This photo was shot in Collingwood on January 2nd.  I was shopping and taking some pictures of the ice sculptures when this scene presented itself to me.
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Photo Book Available

I’ve just published a book showcasing some of my images over the past couple of years.  Most of the photographs in this book have received awards or appeared in various shows.  I hope to bring out a Photo-Journey, Selection of Images book annually.

If you’re interested in this book, available in hardcover, softcover or ebook, check it out here

Book description Photography is one of the most popular hobbies in the world today but one thing is clear – while taking a good quality picture is easier and more accessible than ever before, there continues to be a distinction betweScreen Shot 2015-01-23 at 10.50.28 AMen snapshots and photographs; picture takers and photographers. My creative journey began with writing novels in the late 90’s and now encompasses photography, videography and screenwriting (despite a career in information technology). I jumped on the photography bandwagon in the digital age (along with millions of others) and got hooked. It is so much easier to share a well-crafted image than a 100,000 word novel. And through the lens, I discovered a renewed fascination with the natural world. At times, I’ve questioned my obsessive creative pursuits – am I crazy? Maybe so but I believe this quotation from Thomas Merton provides one possible explanation for my behaviour: “Art enables us to find ourselves and lose ourselves at the same time”. I hope you enjoy these images. They represent both my personal journey and a desire to share my experiences and unique view of the world which I believe is a motivation for many artists.

Link for the Photo-Journey eBook for iPad 

Winner in Canadian Geographic Photo Competition

My photograph, “Lake Louise Magic”, has won first place in The Canadian Geographic Magazine annual photo competition in the category of Canadian Landscapes.  This shot was taken last fall when 7 of us went to Lake Louise to visit my sons Jordan and Tyler who both live and work there.  The young man is my nephew, Jasper.  He is in a constant state of motion but he actually sat down and stared when he noticed the majestic beauty before him.  His magic wand/globe had just been given to him by the concierge.

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